A few years ago, I came up with the term;
Me-sponsible:
The act of being responsible to ME - for the benefit of my health, happiness and well being.
I put it on to t-shirts and mugs and different gifts on my online stores. Since then, I have seen my quote used in different blogs around the internet, and I'm glad that people are finding it helpful in their own personal health quests. That was my intention.
Recently, I've discovered even more ways for me to apply the term Me-sponsible for myself, than I originally thought. At first, it was a way to keep my focus on my health quest without letting the influence of others, or taking care of others first, get in my way. But now, I've discovered how much more important it has become for me to keep that focus. I don't want to let the cat out of the bag too early, but I will say, I will be writing a short true memoir account of my story of Me-sponsible, and where I go from here.
I hope to have it published on Amazon Kindle and other ebook devices before the end of the year. Along with Ginny's Sacrifice, a paranormal fictional novella, and a few other paranormal fiction short stories.
In the mean time, here is a keychain with my design and quote:
Have a great day!
Author Niki Alling - books, designs and poetry for all ages.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Vacation!
Hi everyone,
It's been a while since my last post, sorry about that. Today I'm officially on vacation from my day job. So now I can really focus on my writing and designing, and just doing what ever I want. I'll be visiting my 95 year old Grandmother soon also. She is a gem. Lots of good stories come from her wisdom and experience. It's amazing how much can be acquired in the span of 95 years. I've been very lucky to have her still with us.
The weather is beautiful, great day for going for a walk. I come up with my best ideas when I'm surrounded by nature.
Have a great day!
It's been a while since my last post, sorry about that. Today I'm officially on vacation from my day job. So now I can really focus on my writing and designing, and just doing what ever I want. I'll be visiting my 95 year old Grandmother soon also. She is a gem. Lots of good stories come from her wisdom and experience. It's amazing how much can be acquired in the span of 95 years. I've been very lucky to have her still with us.
The weather is beautiful, great day for going for a walk. I come up with my best ideas when I'm surrounded by nature.
Have a great day!
Saturday, July 30, 2011
First Draft
Hi all, my first draft of Ginny's Sacrifice is done! Yea! Alas, there is still much work to be done. But I have to say, the first draft is always my favorite because you never know where the journey will end up. So now comes the task of checking and rechecking and all that fun stuff. I'm hoping that by the end of the year (or sooner) that Ginny will be ready for publication.
In the mean time, I will be working on some short stories, while I'm letting Ginny's story rest for awhile. I've started one already, and so far, so good.
I'll keep you posted!
In the mean time, I will be working on some short stories, while I'm letting Ginny's story rest for awhile. I've started one already, and so far, so good.
I'll keep you posted!
Monday, July 4, 2011
Ginny's Sacrifice...Coming Soon!
Ok I'm getting excited! I'm now five chapters into my new book! It's a fun time travel story that I hope to have finished in the next few months and published with Amazon, Kindle. This has been such a fun journey for me. I have lots of other ideas in the works also for future books. I can't wait to get started with them. Writing has always been a passion of mine along with designing, and with ebooks, I can get them out to the public in a jiffy.
In the mean time, here is a sneak peak at the cover, I couldn't resist!
In the mean time, here is a sneak peak at the cover, I couldn't resist!
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| Coming soon... |
Happy 4th of July!
Lucky you if you were born this day. Today is a day to celebrate our Independence! Have a great day!
Friday, June 17, 2011
For Dad...
My step father, Gary Aitken, was one of the greatest men I have ever known. He passed away seven years ago, but left behind wonderful memories and lots of love. This poem was written in honor of him. I hope it can be passed along to all the wonderful Dads out there! Happy Father's Day!
An inspirational poem for your Dad, comes on many gifts. The picture will take you to gift shop.
For Dad
For Dad by nikiclix
Browse Dad Posters
MEMORIAL VERSION OF THIS POEM - FOR DAD - CAN BE FOUND HERE
ALSO:
I also have a new children's picture book for Fathers called - Your Father's Love and one for Mothers called - Your Mother's Love. You can find them and more books on my author page at Amazon;
amazon.com/author/nikialling
An inspirational poem for your Dad, comes on many gifts. The picture will take you to gift shop.
For DadFor Dad by nikiclix
Browse Dad Posters
MEMORIAL VERSION OF THIS POEM - FOR DAD - CAN BE FOUND HERE
ALSO:
I also have a new children's picture book for Fathers called - Your Father's Love and one for Mothers called - Your Mother's Love. You can find them and more books on my author page at Amazon;
amazon.com/author/nikialling
Sunday, June 12, 2011
4th of July, Dating and Sparks!
In honor of the Fourth of July, I think this is a fitting time to talk about that exciting, fun, wonderful, thrilling, crazy making, awe inspiring.... spark!
Ok, I love fire works just like anyone else...but when it comes to dating, what and where and how does that elusive spark come into play, and better yet, how do you keep it lit? Is it a fantasy, is it real and how can I find it? These are the questions that women and men have been asking since the first lightning strike started the first forest fire.
I used to believe in the "spark", I did. And part of me still does. But as time goes on and I've met more and more people, I'm beginning to believe that, yes you can feel a spark for someone when you first meet, but to have a real spark, a real passionate fire burning love for someone, now that takes time. Just like smoldering coals in a fire pit, it's a long slow process. Not one that just explodes in the air with frenzy and excitement. If you want sparks that will last, the real ones, the ever lit torch of the Olympics, you actually have to make it happen. You have to get right down on the ground and hit the flints together and blow the smoke, and keep watch all night long to make sure it stays lit. And then one day, you will look at each other and realize there was a fire burning all along.
If you're dating, and you've found someone who fits your personality, and gets your jokes, and is fun to be around....don't give up if the initial spark isn't there. Don't throw in the towel just because the sky didn't light up when they walk into a room. People say they want long term relationships, but are off and running as soon as the first spark doesn't catch fire. I ask those people...are you looking for the flame of a candle or a bomb-fire? Because a candle flickers fast and blows out, but a bomb-fire takes much longer to build and can last a very long time.
I for one, am building coals in my fire pit that will last a very long time. I see now how the sparks are fun, but they are not long lasting. When you're out watching fireworks this July 4th, count how many seconds they last in the air. Then go to a bomb-fire and watch how many logs people throw on to maintain it and how many hours it will last.
My Grandparents were married for over fifty years. When I had my first divorce, my Grandfather said to me..."You kids don't know anything about commitment." He was right. We were in it for the sparks and fireworks, not the bomb-fire. And now my dear 95 year old Grandmother said to me just the other day..."If a man is looking for sparks, light a firecracker under his a##!" God love her!
But she is right too. She knows that the sparks are fleeting, and true love is built on friendship, laughs and hard work. The things that keep the fire burning for years!
Happy Fourth of July!
Here is a fun apron to wear at the grill this 4th of July!
Ok, I love fire works just like anyone else...but when it comes to dating, what and where and how does that elusive spark come into play, and better yet, how do you keep it lit? Is it a fantasy, is it real and how can I find it? These are the questions that women and men have been asking since the first lightning strike started the first forest fire.
I used to believe in the "spark", I did. And part of me still does. But as time goes on and I've met more and more people, I'm beginning to believe that, yes you can feel a spark for someone when you first meet, but to have a real spark, a real passionate fire burning love for someone, now that takes time. Just like smoldering coals in a fire pit, it's a long slow process. Not one that just explodes in the air with frenzy and excitement. If you want sparks that will last, the real ones, the ever lit torch of the Olympics, you actually have to make it happen. You have to get right down on the ground and hit the flints together and blow the smoke, and keep watch all night long to make sure it stays lit. And then one day, you will look at each other and realize there was a fire burning all along.
If you're dating, and you've found someone who fits your personality, and gets your jokes, and is fun to be around....don't give up if the initial spark isn't there. Don't throw in the towel just because the sky didn't light up when they walk into a room. People say they want long term relationships, but are off and running as soon as the first spark doesn't catch fire. I ask those people...are you looking for the flame of a candle or a bomb-fire? Because a candle flickers fast and blows out, but a bomb-fire takes much longer to build and can last a very long time.
I for one, am building coals in my fire pit that will last a very long time. I see now how the sparks are fun, but they are not long lasting. When you're out watching fireworks this July 4th, count how many seconds they last in the air. Then go to a bomb-fire and watch how many logs people throw on to maintain it and how many hours it will last.
My Grandparents were married for over fifty years. When I had my first divorce, my Grandfather said to me..."You kids don't know anything about commitment." He was right. We were in it for the sparks and fireworks, not the bomb-fire. And now my dear 95 year old Grandmother said to me just the other day..."If a man is looking for sparks, light a firecracker under his a##!" God love her!
But she is right too. She knows that the sparks are fleeting, and true love is built on friendship, laughs and hard work. The things that keep the fire burning for years!
Happy Fourth of July!
Here is a fun apron to wear at the grill this 4th of July!
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